Mother's Day Special: 12 Books to Help You Make Lifelong Connections with Your Child

posted by Toka Box Editorial Team , May 08, 2020

It is Mother's Day, and we give you books that you can read with your child to form those powerful connections!

I still miss my mom and when she visits, I treasure our moments together. When she is not with me, I think of the happy times -- when we would go to parks or when I would sleep on a bed covered by her sari. Mother's Day is all about connections, and we give you books that spark the deep connections that we make as Indian mums and children, no matter where we may live in the world!

1. Mamma Do you Love Me by Barbara M. Joosse and illustrated by Barbara Lavallee (1 to 3 years)

This board book is a timeless classic! A little girl wants to know how much her mother loves her. She imagines different situations that will test her mother. While the child tries to find the limit of her mother's love by testing her boundaries, the mother reassures her at every instance that she will always love her. "What if I put salmon in your parka and ermine in your mukluks?" With every question, the daughter tries to test her mother's limits for her love. The mother answers,

"I'll love you until

the umiak flies into the darkness,

till the stars turn

to fish in the sky,

and the puffin howls at the moon."

The book's mother and daughter are Inuits. The book has beautiful animals, including a polar bear and a musk dox. There are new words like 'mukluks' and 'ptarmigan.' It is a wonderful introduction to the Inuit culture, as well as a beautiful book for mothers and their children to read together.  

This book is our pick for the May Toka Peanut box!

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2. Sunu-sunu snail: Storm in the Garden by Sandhya Rao and illustrated by Ashok Rajagopalan ( 3 to 5 years)

This beautiful book is from two masters in the children's literature space in India -- Sandhya Rao and Ashok Rajagopalan! The story is about a little snail with a delightful name, Sunu Sunu, who goes out to meet his friends, and suddenly there is a storm. He then goes running to his mother to tell her what he saw. He describes the rain in an endearing and funny way, just like our children come and tell us with huge excitement on their faces, the scene that they just saw, be it a jackfruit, a crow or a man selling kulfis on the street. We love such books that bring back memories like this!

What I loved about the book are the illustrations by Ashok Rajagopalan and of course, the absolutely adorable writing by Sandhya Rao.

I loved the simple lines and the subtle rhyming sentences. The sentences are not rhyming like in a poem but done in a much more subtle prose way but way more effective. I think this seems to be Sandhya Rao's specialty. Even in another book of hers, 'Busy Busy GrandAnt,' ' the words seem to rhyme very beautifully.

The book is highly recommended by 3+ kids. they will enjoy the simple words, the lovely illustrations, and the superb story.

Go on, get into the world of Sunu-sunu!  

This book is our pick for the May Toka Junior box!

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3. Granny's Sari by Asha Nehemiah and illustrated by Subir Roy (3 to 5 years)

We love how a sari is a beautiful symbol of love between a mother and a child, or a grandmother and grandchild. I used to sleep in a traditional cloth cradle made from my mother's sari!

In this book, Granny's favorites sari flies off in the breeze. A littlle girl accompanies her grandmother from place to place to help her find it. As they go looking for it, they meet people who have used the sari to their advantage. This is an endearing story that very subtly teaches kids the value of giving and sharing. As Granny tells her granddaughter, "When my sari was with me, it made me happy. After it flew away from me, it made so many people happy." 

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4. My Mother's Sari by Sandhya Rao and illustrated by Nina Sabnani (3 to 5 years)

What can you imagine a sari to be? A train, a hammock, or even a place to hide. The book goes a long way in enhancing a child’s imagination. A simple piece of cloth that can have so many uses. This book is a classic by renowned children's author, Sandhya Rao, and is published by Tulika. 

When I saw the book, My Mother's Sari' by Tulika Publications, I was very very tempted to buy it for R.

Personally, let me confess that I want my child to wear a sari, and enjoy wearing it. I feel its a very elegant costume, and for someone who has seen her mother carry off saris with elan, I would love if my daughter wears saris with the same ease! The book is one which both my daughter and I have enjoyed reading a lot. Simple words, superb illustrations, and amazing flow. The illustrations are absolutely eye-catching and gorgeous, and you get to see a huge variety of colorful saris which you would want to get for yourself!

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5. My Dadima Wears a Sari by Kashmira Sheth and illustrated by Yoshiko Jaeggi (5 to 8 years)

Every day, Rupa’s grandmother (Dadima) wears a beautiful sari. She wears her saris around the house and around the town. Some are made of cotton and some are made of fine silk. Each is brightly colored and very beautiful. 

“Don’t you ever want to wear a gray skirt and red blouse with round buttons like Mommy or a green dress like me?” Rupa asks. But Dadima prefers to wear her traditional saris. She shares with her granddaughter all the wonderful things that saris can do—from becoming an umbrella in a rainstorm to providing a deep pouch to carry seashells. Soon Rupa’s imagination is sparked as she envisions saris protecting her in the scary Gir jungle, bandaging up an injured knee, and holding a special secret for her and Dadima to share!

This book is our May Toka Explorer pick! 

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6. Mata, Mama and Me by Swamini Supriyananda and illustrated by Anastasia Damani (3 to 5 years)

A mother's love for her child is unconditional and selfless, a love in divine form.  Although a father's love is equally weighed, there is definitely a stronger emotional bond with a mother that makes her the first love of every child. Indian Literature prioritizes the importance of mother more than the father,  the guru and even God. A child feels the goodness of Guru and God in a mother.

Mata, Mama and Me is part of the Chinmaya Bala Katha series that introduces the principles of Vedanta and bhakti in the early years of childhood so as to instill in the readers a strong foundation of virtues and values that will enable them to thrive later in life. This book celebrates the feminine and maternal qualities of divinity in the form of Devi. Mata is nurturing, wise and strong. She possesses a love that knows no bounds, much like our own mama.  It depicts the purity of a mother`s love in a way that little ones can understand and relate to.

The underlying concept of the book is that Goddess Mata has created the entire universe and all that life has to offer, and a Mom introduces all these to a child in a loving and caring way.

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7. Where is Amma? by Nandini Nayar and illustrated by Srividya Natarajan (3 to 5 years)

Kiran looks for his mother everywhere — in the kitchen, in the balcony and even in the unlikeliest of places! "Are you there, Amma?" "Are you inside, Amma?" Kiran looks everywhere – in the kitchen, in the balcony and even in the unlikeliest of places! Is amma inside the fridge? Her slippers are next to it! Is she eating up all his favorite food inside? This book explores the imagination of a child and his connection to his mother! Srividya Natarajan's charming watercolor illustrations make this book one warm and irresistible hide-and-seek story.

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8. The Champa Flower by Rabindranath Tagore and illustrated by Jaikar (3 to 5 years)

Through this whimsical little story, Tagore whilst indulging in a flight of fantasy, brings to life, the warm emotional bond between the mother and child, the active imagination of a child and also reveals the daily routine of a woman in rural Bengal. 

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9. Where's the Sun? 

10. You're Strong With Me


The minute we opened You're Strong with Me by Chitra Soundar, my daughter was drawn into the illustrations. The book is about a mama giraffe and her baby who are walking through their home in the grasslands. As they walk through it, they encounter rain clouds, a pecking oxpecker, and smoke that stings the baby giraffe's eyes. The baby giraffe finds these changes very new and uncertain but the mother reassures her that she will get used to them and truly understand the world.

It was touching to read this book with my daughter. I know that I will have to set her way into the world. I hope that my message to her, much like this book, will resonate with her forever, even when I am not there to pat her or soothe her with a kiss. Until then, she's strong with me!

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11. Clouds and Waves

Written by Rabindranath Tagore, this is an endearing poem about a child who refuses tempting invitations, instead staying with her mother at playtime, blissful in her company. Words are woven with great tenderness by the greatest poet of all times, a gentle verse for all the little ones! Don't miss other books by Gurudev here.

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12. Where's the Sun? Written by Niveditha Subramaniam, illustrated by Janu Bhiva Ravate

One morning, a mother and child go in search of the sun. Will they find it? The simple story is based on a traditional painting by a master Warli artist, with illustrations extracted from the original spectacular canvas. 

Toka Box created a superb Warli art tutorial based on this book. My daughter and I both created it -- watch it below!

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